Hello. My name is Jennifer and I have been Facebook free for almost two full months (since
January 17th) and, though I would very much like to say I don’t miss
it, I must admit that I do. Miss
it. Often. Frequently. (“’Orphan’ as in a person with no parents or ‘often’ frequently?” Bonus
points anyone?)
I miss so very many people!
I miss being able to keep in touch with family out of state. I miss being able to use more than 140
characters. I miss the enjoyment it
brought me, seeing other peoples’ pictures, sharing in their joys, their
sorrows. Cheering people on, or up.
I don’t miss the politics, the nastiness, the speed at which
rumors spread (so & so is dead! Oh,
my gosh!) only to find out through the smallest amount of sleuthing that said rumor is a
hoax. I don’t miss people “friending” me
who I don't know from Adam. I don’t
miss all the inappropriate things, comments, pictures, and
hey-look-at-me-selfies. I don’t miss
people (for whatever reason: religion, personal beliefs, sexual orientation,
skin color) being persecuted or verbally bashed or simply hated. What have we become?
I want to feel like I still have friends, even if I don’t
see them every day. Because I’m interested
in what interests them. What makes them
happy.
This whole giving up Facebook thing is much harder than I
thought it would be.
And yet…
Sometimes – for extended stretches – I don’t think about it
at all. So I ask myself, often and
frequently, “Would I go back?” It’s not
like a drug addiction, right? Or an
alcohol addiction. Those unfortunate
addictions are not even in the same ballpark…are they? It’s not like giving up cigarettes,
either. Been there, done that, got the
t-shirt. Still want one almost every
day.
So, would I go back?
Maybe. Someday. If “they” banned politics and mean people and
selfishness and toxicity and narcissism and inequality and hate. Those are the reasons I left.
And yeah, like I said, I miss parts of it. I miss those I love, or like an awful lot, or
even am vaguely interested in. But I don’t
miss the rest. Come see me on Twitter,
OK? It’s not my drug of choice, but it’s
a non-narcotic form of Social Media that I can handle. Mostly.
(Twitter: @jshell73 #offonatangent)
TTFN
JMS
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